Why is it so hard to say the words " we so desperately want to hear" ? Do you find your self actually taking the gift of an apology, whether given or received, as your opportunity to "win" ? ( if the word "but" is any where near the words " I'm Sorry" , you aren't apologyzing , you're trying to be right.) Why ?Becouse you are missing two fundamental components of the foundation you need to build for a hearfelt apology that can be felt by the other person and by you !
There are five ways to say I'm sorry and show them you mean it. First, Hug. It's hard to stay mad when you hug someone. Physical touch can bridge the widest of emotional distance. Second, write or find a poem showing how you feel about the other person outside of the situation. Keep it simple, give the poem to the person you wronged, and say "I'm Sorry". Next , give the person a list of the top 5 reason why they are important to you. it will make her realize how important she for you. Th next step is creating an online collage of 10 photos of amazing place you've been together or fun experiences you've shared. Add an massage to the gift. It will remind her, how precious her to you. The last step, if the previous step are not working well, make a donation to the other person's favorite charity. Get a receipt of the donation, hand it to the other person and apologize by saying " I'm Sorry".
Remember none of these apologies wil work unless you get in a state of truly being sorry for your part in the situation.
There are five ways to say I'm sorry and show them you mean it. First, Hug. It's hard to stay mad when you hug someone. Physical touch can bridge the widest of emotional distance. Second, write or find a poem showing how you feel about the other person outside of the situation. Keep it simple, give the poem to the person you wronged, and say "I'm Sorry". Next , give the person a list of the top 5 reason why they are important to you. it will make her realize how important she for you. Th next step is creating an online collage of 10 photos of amazing place you've been together or fun experiences you've shared. Add an massage to the gift. It will remind her, how precious her to you. The last step, if the previous step are not working well, make a donation to the other person's favorite charity. Get a receipt of the donation, hand it to the other person and apologize by saying " I'm Sorry".
Remember none of these apologies wil work unless you get in a state of truly being sorry for your part in the situation.
